We as human beings try to find answers for each and everything in our life.
we try to be rational and logical creatures but sooner and later we forget that not all situations and circumstances can be derived by reasoning.
And it is under such conditions we assume that “ Life is such a mystery” but trying to solve that mystery ruins the beauty of our life, some situations are meant to be savoured rather than analysed.
Our life is just a sum of our experiences and the relationships we build along the journey of life. Sometimes we need to take the challenging road to understand what life has to teach us, sometimes we really know that a trip we travel through easy road does not end in our expected destination.
Such is the beauty and the mystery we are enveloped every day. During this small journey, there were many common traits some of us would have experienced, those qualities determine our future and our attitude toward life in general. Many are still to be explored, hope I learn some great wisdom during my Journey.
Me and My Deep Seated Values
Every person’s life is determined by his deep-seated values, and only a few recognise his values cannot be forced on others.
The vital concept of I am what I am is only for myself, and it takes a great deal of effort to understand that He is not what I am. You can see this deep-seated values everywhere, be it a company CEO trying to implement his values down the line or an angry husband working it on his submissive wife, we just cannot apply our values on another. I know my readers are familiar with Self Values=EGO, Domination, Bossism…etc the list is just endless.
I am not as bad as you think and I am not as good as I believe
I have been criticised many many times, I just don’t remember it. Somedays more, some days less!!
Every day I don’t eat three meals regularly. During those times the fundamental fact I came to understand that all my criticisms are never valid. It was his assumption of me rather than my assumption of myself.
Handling criticisms were really easy when I understood that everyone acts differently in their drama of Life, not all actors receive oscar right?
And about myself, I always need to agree that I was not born intelligent or some Nectar of wisdom was given during my polio vaccine. Understanding my faults through introspection is the beauty of handling experiences and my relationships. The fact is that I am highly imperfect in my own respect.
Will Procrastination Ever Rule the World?
We often have severe headaches along the way, higher during office hours or even forgetting to buy the grocery list can indeed lead to severe migraines.
Procrastination is the result of the fear of doing something or the fear of being criticised after the completion of the work. However, once the action has been taken the pain of discomfort vanishes immediately.
Have we not heard impossible things accomplished every day by humans or did we not see Armageddon Movie yet? Many dis-comfortable feelings vanish the moment you take action. Once you set the wheels of motion rolling no matter whatever the circumstance we humans can finish it.Like wanting to end this blog post in one month at least(Height of procrastination….Finally!!)
Zombies and Fools come in all shapes and sizes
During our life, we would have experienced many fools around us, no matter how hard we try to ward them off, they will always be there.
Trying to be emotional during those times we lose a great deal of energy, no RED bull has been invented for that kind of times, we have just to accept them and keep on moving, If you start to think about them again only, God can save you.
Also, an important thing to be remembered is even for that fool, through his eyes you too remain a fool so chose your fools wisely!!.
Life is indeed a video game, but there are no Genres
Our life is definitely a video game, but the theme varies, sometimes its FPS(First person Shooters), sometimes it is role-playing, many times it is solving some critical puzzle.
The more difficult the levels become, the higher the joy in finishing it. A real hardcore gamer should know the meaning of the word persistence, it gives them real happiness, the more we get killed, the more we keep resuming and wanting to finish it.
This applies in all areas of our life, mending a broken relationship, learning a new skill, working on a new job its all challenges. Getting frustrated sooner will have only sadness, but continuous persistence can make you wonderfully happy… Happy Gaming!!
Let me also finish my battlefield Game!!!
Thanks for Reading!
Originally published at www.vinodsblogs.com on September 5, 2018.
